What to do when you don't get what you want

Everyone in their life have desire for certain things but not everyone will get it. If we don't get what you want does it mean you don't desire it?

Absolutely No.

Either it is not meant for you or you don't took efforts for it.  

As we all know if it meant for you it will come to you no matter what. We get what we deserve and what is meant for us. Sometimes we are just lucky enough to get what we want. Sometimes we are not. Luck is a factor. It may or may not favor us. But still luck don't give everything. 

We can't predict luck so keep that aside. Then what  actually help you in getting what you what?

It simply what you do. Isn't it? 

The things you do now will decide what your are going to have in future life. And this quote states that.

"Work now and chill later" 

The more you work for what you want, the more chance are there to get what you want. 

Starting phase of anything will be not at all easy. It can be a business, Loving someone or getting what you want but it is not easy. It took so much Time and hard work to start something new. That phase will be really really hard to cross. One of the worst thing you go through on that time is mood swings. First five minutes you will feel like you are the top of the world next five minutes you feel completely opposite. This is how you mood swing will change if you do something for very first time or starting the process of getting what you want. But don't loose hope. Remember 

"Everything starts from zero"

If you have a clear idea about what you want and you are ready to work for it then you will definitely achieve it. No matter how big your dream is if you are ready to work for it, it will definitely come true. In the beginning not everyone will trust you or nor everyone can see what your potentials are. On that time you must trust yourself in order to make your dreams come true. Everything will scar you in the very beginning. But you have to stand by your decision. 

After you start to work you will still face some difficulty. It will be difficult to be consistent. It will be really hard to stay consistent. Other then that you will face mood swing and so on. But you have just focus on your dream and desire. These problems looks big when you are facing them for a first time. 

But once you know how to handle these, this will never be a big one. And don't forget it will definitely take some time to get what you want. Time is a major factor. It will take huge time to get what you want. So be patient until you get that. Don't stress yourself for what you want within a particular time. 

If you really want something then start to work for it from now onwards. 

Start it from now. Be consistent and patient. Give yourself time and you will definitely get what you want one day.

We talk about doing something for our goal but how to actually get started is the question here?

How to actually get started?

Here there are four simple steps to be taken for getting started. There are very simple and anyone in this world can do that. Let check out what is that.

1) First get a goal and know exactly "why" this is your goal.

First of you need a goal and you have to find out the reason "why" you choose that as your goal. Lot of people have goal or desire but not all the person have the correct "why". Are you also that person who have no "why" but only goal? if yes, then please read it fully.

The reason behind your goal is the fuel for us to go to where we want. That is a huge factor to get started and keep going. Most people quit in between because they don't have the "Why". Their is a quote which says the importance of having a strong "why"

"If the why is strong then how is easy"

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It state that if you know what you want to do then it is easy to figure out how to do it.

Now, let see how you can have the " why". First of all your goal have to be something which you love to do because we spend most of our time with our work so it is really important to have a passion for it.

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Passion which generate money is the best. Your passion have to support you financially. It no need to make huge but it should make some.

Next you have to see to that what you do is something which is important for the society and the world. There will be only demand for you work if you do something which the world needs.

Make sure that what you do will solve a problem or fills the need because the only way to earn money is by solving others problem. If you goal solve any problem or need of any person then you can go for it.

so set a goal with the strong "why".

2) Getting started

Getting started is one of the hardest thing. It is not easy like more people thing. This is the first step to actually reach you goal. Being of anything is very difficult. It takes so much of courage and passion to get started.

Train your mind and body to start. Your thoughts play a major role in this. Tell yourself that you have to start it no matter what.

3)Consistency

Success is the result of loop which means success only come for those who do the things consistently. We all know the power of consistency. Be consistent is hard and not easy. When things don't work in your way, you get demotivated and you may give up easily but remember there where you need to be very consistent and strong.

Not everything will fall under our favor. There will be so much of ups and downs in the journey. To handle this you need to be consiste.nt and be patient.

4)Patients

Now you do all the things like you get started, your are consistent and so on. But you still don't get the result, what you can do?

There is only way for it, just stay patiently. The result what you want will never come to you easily. It also take so much time to get the result. Be patient and wait for your time but always remember that you will get result for what you did, Not immediately but definitely.

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