Comparing kills but how and what to learn out of it?

 In our life we have the practice of comparing yourself to others regularly. We don't know whether this is right or wrong but we are comparing our self to others. Life is unfair it don't give you everything to everyone. 

Everybody gets what they deserve in life. It means if you are really deserving to something no one can take that from you and if you are not deserving, nobody can bring you that. comparison will bring you nothing other than sadness. Everyone compared with someone else by the society or the family or by themselves.

Do you think this right? Everybody answer will be a Big NO. No one likes to be compared no one wants to hear that they are lower than others or they are incapable of certain things. I don't know how people are comparing when each and every story is different and each and everyone life is different. People are facing their own problems and their own things in life. We only know what are the things we are facing in our life. 

                 Comparing destroy personality 

If someone else is comparing you is not a big deal because they don't know what happening in your life, they don't know about your story and it's ok but if you started to compare your life with someone else then it's your mistake and it's will be your biggest mistake. Why we need to compare ourselves with others. Its ok if someone is better than you if someone is doing great than you if someone is good at the thing you are not good but they are not who you are someone who is here to live your life, only you life. I know nobody like to compare themselves with others but still we do. 
We compare ourselves with other person in three different aspects physically, mentally and financially. And that's the three aspects that make a life. 

If they have good muscles that means they work hard for it. They get up early and they went to gym and that's because they have the muscle. If someone has a good bank balance means they worked hard to get it. If they have peaceful mind means they meet with problems. Likewise whatever people get is because of their hard work. In this point in your life, more than comparing yourself with others try to learn from others. If you want body to be, go and work for it if you want to strengthen your bank account go and work more hard for it if you want to find happy and peaceful life means try to change your mind set. 

Remember this quote 

                  If grass in the other side looks greener then stop comparing it stop staring it and start to do the things what make your side more greener. 

Nothing is going to change in your side if you keep staring the grass on the other side. Nothing is going to change in your side when you are only comparing your with others side. If someone is higher than you then more than comparing yourself with them just look that in a different way why we need to complain and compare all the time can't we learn from them. There are so much life lessons that are out there for us and this is one of that. 
If you still can't tolerate your comparing sense that means you are still not able to see or value your blessings in your life. Obviously nobody gets everything but we get something in our life that need to be cherished for whole life. Always focus on the things which is meant for us.