How to live your life peacefully?

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How to live your life peacefully?  Life is a beautiful thing. Life is for being happy and enjoying everything that's come a way. We all want happiness, peace and love in our life. No matter what we are thinking about life in the end we will need these three things. All are working hard and putting this much effect to have these three in their lives. One cannot be happy or peaceful without these things. People think that these are very expensive but it is not. Actually, it doesn't even cost. You can get it absolutely for free. You have to believe it.  Let's see how  first we have to accept the factor that being in peace is more important than anything even then the happiness.We have to put peace before a happiness. This things to be unfair or stupid but when you get older and why sir you will understand. In life, happiness and sadness both are there. It is all the part of the life. It will change according to the situation in our life. So we cannot determine or tell we will

How to face your problems in life?

 We all have problems. We all must have problems. A problems is not a big deal but what make it big deal is how you handle it. The result depend upon the way you have a problem. Once a wise man said:

"A problems is just like a stone, If you keep it near your eyes it will hide the whole world but if  you keep that in back you will don't even know that exist in your life"

 

Any problem can be caused by two things:

1 From outside

2 From inside

From outside

The major problems are comes from outside like the situation, the people around us etc. It can be anything that affect us. These are the thing that is not in our control. This is in everyone's life. we all have to face that. 

  

 "We can't calm the storm but we can wait until it pass... "

Likewise we can't control our situation but we can control how we handle the situation. Problem are also part of our life like our happiness. We don't want problems in life but  we can't learn everything  from happiness. The problem that are caused by outside is just like the test for us. we have to answer according to the question that is the situation. We should be strong enough to hand that problem in our life. It in our hand that how we solve the problem.

From inside

Problem which affect us most is mostly come from our self. We want certain thing to happen our life but it don't happen. this is the main reason why we get problems with our self. we assume certain thing to happen but if it don't then we are not ready to handle it. so our mind create a illusions like these think don't happen to us or we are not capable to these things. In these time we must be our own support system and encourage our self.

   "The problems are created and end in our minds.."

 People will always trend to create certain problems for no reason. This because their imbalance with their mind. It because of their fear about certain thing like the fear of loosing their favorite people. It is always easy to create a problem but it so hard to solve. So stop creating the problems that not even existing in our life.  

The ultimate solution

 The ultimate solution for every problem can lie in three types.
1.Accept and learn
2.Move on 
3.ignore

Accept and learn

Problem have it's own purpose. It will leave you once it teach you something. We must be ready to accept certain problem which can be caused by outside or from inside. Even it require some gut to accept our problems from our life. Believe, every problem may not have good ending but every problem will teach you something good at the end. So next time you face any problem in your life try to accept it and learn from it more than complaining  about it.

Move on

If you cannot do anything with the problem then just simply simply move on. Moving on from problem will make your more calm person actually. In certain problem moving on mean cutting the person you don't like. For example, If a person you love is not loving you back then move on from the relationship.
Likewise certain thing we have to leave no matter how much we love it. 

Ignore

We all have some small problem which can be ignored easily. If you think certain problems are not a big deal then ignore that like it never happened in your life. It is best way to handle the small problems. 


Having a problem is not big deal but how you face it is something that change our life. so most often try to solve your problem as quick as problem. We are going to solve the problem anyway but how quick is the question. 


Thank you for reading.....


 





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